Amigo, el ratón del queso

Medellín continues to make headlines. On March 27, 2026, the body of Erick Molina, an American Airlines flight attendant was found 100 kilometers south of Medellín. Erick had been a victim of a very popular drugging scam in Medellín: Scopolamine. It is a natural drug that is found in the Brugmansia plant family. The plant is most commonly known as floripondio, or more appropriately, borrachero. On occasion, doctors use it to treat motion sickness, but if ingested in large quantities, a person loses their ability to make decisions and can voluntarily give up their personal information. There have been countless news articles, documentaries, and interviews made about the dangers of this drug.

Danger is relative. Gun violence is something to be worried about in the United States; not so much in Colombia. Colombia has it’s own unique set of dangers that can affect you if you aren’t careful. Your best bet is not to look for sex and drugs. Locals would consider you are “giving papaya” and pursuing the quickest way down the Medellín crapshoot if you choose any of the later activites.

But “giving papaya” isn’t the only way to get yourself in trouble. Often times, people romanticize Latin American hospitality. People like to think that people are more hospitable, kind, and warm. While that might be true, it is a proven method local criminal organizations use to earn your trust and commit their crime. Please be cautions because amigo, el ratón del queso!

What Do New Yorkers Think is Normal That Other People Find Weird?

I always knew New York was different. I really never came to understand what that meant until I moved out of the city. The first time was in college. I went to a university in a rural town in Upstate New York with a population of about 12,000 people. The difference I noticed then was the diversity. In college, everything seemed so flat. Everyone was tuned into a frequency I couldn’t seem to pick up. The second time was in 2018 when I decided to move to Colombia. And now, when I return the differences are stark and some of them just straight up weird.

I wanted to see if I was the only one who thought so too so I asked Reddit. The answers didn’t disappoint!

4 Books That Changed How I See Identity

Reading has served two purposes in my life: reduce screentime and help me put my feelings in place. I’ve become a voyeur. It has helped me feel less alone.

I don’t think I’ve ever read as many books as I did when I moved to Colombia in 2018. I think I got close to 30. Life has since gotten in the way and 15 now is an achievement. Recently, I revisited my handwritten list of read books and four titles stood out. These books all dealt head on with themes of identity and have helped me express things I’ve always felt but never knew how.

Where The Past Begins by Amy Tan

We’ve taken the family stories we’ve heard as factual. We don’t even think to challenge them. Probably because we’ve grown used to our heros and villains. In her memoir, Amy Tan goes through seven bins of family memorabiliia challenging every idea and story she had about herself and her family. In most instances she reaffirmed what she’s always known but she learned that lies are often weaved into stories with many versions.

Mi País Inventado by Isabel Allende

The most publish Latin American author wrote her famous novel La casa de los espíritus based on the stories she heard from her grandfather. Her grandfather spoke about his big house on the corner so much, she thought she had lived in it and felt compelled to write about it.

Sometimes we inherit our memories. We own them and treat them like they are ours. But they aren’t. Its good to appropriate memories to help us understand where we come from but they can be tricky because they’ll have us believing something that doesn’t exsist.

Stay True by Hua Hsu

We like to complain about how people are represented in media. Most of the time we’re caricaturized, white people included. But what happens when there is no representation at all? These are some of the things Hua talked about with his late friend, Ken who had tragically passed away in a car jacking.

Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche

It so much more than a love story. This novel is about the intricacies of how race and class work in both the United States and the UK. It forces the reader to confront how identity, especially within the Black communities, belonging, and perception change across borders.

I Quit Drinking When I Moved to Medellín

Medellín has the reputation for being a big party city. And it is if you are on vacation or on a sabatical. I have been living in Medellín since 2018 and I have found that drinking culture is much more prevalent in the United States. Drinking culture in the US officially begins in college. It is everywhere.

I went to college in a town that had 13,000 people and more bars per square mile than any other city I had been to. Coming from New York City, it was quite the big culture shock. I had a really hard time assimilating. Most people around me had suburban or rural backgrounds. I eventually met my tribe, but it still wasn’t easy. There wasn’t much to do in this small town. Sorority and fraterinity parties were the standar weekend (and sometimes weekday) activity. At the time, alcohol helped me control my social anxiety and it made everything seem so fun! This is how my drinking habit began.

When I moved back to New York City I discovered how great the party scene was. I had a really great time and made plenty of memories with my friends. But drinking in New York City doesn’t just stay at the club or the bar, it spills over into the work culture. Team building usually happens over happy hour. You build your network at fancy corporate events that often offer three or four hours of open bar. And how can we forget those lavish and extensive client meals?

After living in Colombia for as long as I have, and after having the experience of working at three large Colombian corporations, I can say that alcohol is not as big as people like ot think it is.

6 Unspoken Rules NOT to Break in Medellín

Medellin is one of the most visited cities in Latin America today. Travelers come for the spring-like weather, the mountain views, and the energy of a city that has reinvented itself over the past few decades.

But like any city, Medellín has its own social codes. Here are some tips you should follow to avoid misunderstandings that can create awkward moments.

1. Don’t Call Medellín “Cheap”

Many visitors arrive in Colombia and are surprised by how affordable things feel compared to the United States or Europe.

But saying “Medellín is cheap” rarely comes across the way people intend.

First, announcing how inexpensive everything is can unintentionally reveal how far your money goes, which isn’t always wise when traveling. But more importantly, for locals this isn’t a vacation destination, its their real life.

To put things into perspective, Colombia’s legal minimum wage currently sits around 1,750,950 COP, plus a 250,000 COP transportation subsidy for workers who qualify. Depenidng on the exchange rate, that comes out to roughly $500 – $550 USD per month.

At the same time, a large share of Colombia’s workforce is informal and earns below the legal minimum wage. In cities like Bogotá or Medellín, many salaried jobs fall somewhere between two and two-and-half the minimum wage.

So if you find accommodations, food, and nightlife far below the prices you are used to, enjoy it. Just keep the commentary to yourself.

2. Don’t Get Too Informal Too Fast

Pasias (people from Medellín) are famously warm and friendly. But Medellín is still a fairly traditional and socially conservatiev city, and formality matters more than many visitors expect.

A good rule of thumb:

  • Address older people as Señor or Señora
  • Use usted instead of tú when meeting someone new

Overtime, relationship often become more relaxed. But starting with respect goes a long way.

Another thing to understand is that in Medellín, friendship and family are two different circles. Locals may welcome you warmly into their social lives, but family spaces tend to be more private and are earned graudally over time.

3. Don’t Skip the Greetings

In Medellín, interaction usually begins before the request.

Whether you’re entering a doctor’s office, walking into a shop, or passing someone in your building, there is typically a greeting first:

  • Buenos días
  • Buenas tardes
  • ¿Cómo estás?

For visitors from more fast-paced cultures, this might feel like small talk. But here its a fomr of social acknowledgement.

The greeting establishes a conncetion before the transaction.

Ignoring that step can make interactions feel abrupt or even rude.

4. Don’t Treat Lunch Like a Quick Bite

In Colombia, lunch isn’t just another meal. It’s often the main event of of the day.

A traditional lunch usually follows a structure known as “sopa y seco.”

First comes the soup.

Then comes the seco. Typically rice, beans, a protein, plantain, and sometimes avocado.

In other words, a full meal.

Beacuase of this tradition, foods like burgers, pizza, and hot dogs are usually seen as lighter or more casual meals, often eaten in the evening rather than at midday.

So if someone invites you to lunch in Medellín, don’t expect a quick bite. It’s usually mean to be something more substantial.

5. Don’t Confuse Warm Weather with Beach Culture

Medellín’s climate is famously described as “eternal spring.”

But warm weather doesn’t mean beach culture.

Even on casual days, locals tend to dress with intention. Style matters in Medellín. It is not something flashy but rather something put together.

You’ll rarely see locals walking around shirtless, in flip flops, or in a swimwear otuside pool areas.

Personal presentation is seen as a form of social respect. The way you dress signals how seriously you take youself and the space you are in.

6. Don’t Throw Trash on the Streets

Medellín has worked hard to transform itself over the past few decades.

Parks, public transit, sidewalks, and community spaces are all part of that transformation. Many locals take real pride in the city’s appearance.

Because of that, littering isn’t just seen as messy, it is often interpreted as disrespectful.

Treating public places with care is one of the easiest ways to show appreciation for the city.


Medellín is an incredibly welcoming city, and most visitors have a great experience here.

But understanding a few social norms can make your time in the city smoother and more respectful, both for you and for the people who call this place home.

If you follow these six guidelines, you’ll move through Medellín with much greater ease. Here are a few other tips you can follow!

What Marty Supreme Gets Right About First Generation Americans

Marty Supreme (2025) directed and co-written by Josh Safdie is a movie about the 1950s American dream. The movie is losely based on the life of Marty Reisman, a professional tennis player. Marty was also a child of Ashkanazi Jew immigrants that had settled in New York’s Lower East Side.

Marty is employed at his uncle’s shoe store where they also have big dreams for him — to become the shoe store manager. But Marty is above that. Marty is off to the table tennis big leagues. For most immigrant families, owning and running a business in the United States is the American Dream, but the defnition of the American dream shifts between generations often creating a lot of friction between parents and their children.

A big part of the plot revolves around Marty convincing his parents that he doesn’t want to be a shoe store manager. In this video I explore the dynamics that a lot of first generation Americans face just like Marty did.

The “Where Are You From?” Trap. Why NYC is so EXHAUSTING!

I often wonder if I will ever move back to New York City and then I remember the city’s identity dynamics. The answer is pretty simple!

New York City is very small in size. It measures 472.43 sq mi (1,223.59 km2). There are currently 8.5 million people living in the city. I truly believe there are people from every nation in the world living there. And while this is one of the charms of New York, the tribalism can become exhausting.

We all look for similarities in each other; it is our nature. The commonalities people look for in New York are, nationality, languge, food, and religion. Everything other essence of ourselves gets reduced to the pits of identity hierarchies. Of course, this is a survival mechanism. In a city where everyone is a minority, numbers matter.

In New York, this question has no interest in knowing where you were born. At least not initially. That is a follow up question if it wasn’t addressed in your carefully curated introduction speech. The question is designed for you to explain why you look the way you do.

In a city that divides itself by tribes, we have certain behavioral expectations from them, just like we do of brands and products. We are all competing to sell ourselves out to a status we all say we reject.

How Moving to Colombia Changed My Music Taste

I’ve been listening to a lot of 90s pop and R&B recently. It got me thinking of all the changes my listening habits have gone through.

I grew up with limited access to music. For the most part, I grew up listening to Top 40 radio. That meant Casey Kasem on Sundays, Z100, KTU, Power 105, and Hot 97. On TV I watched TRL on MTV, 106 & Park on BET, and The Box. My mom’s music was also part of my jukebox. She had a small collection of vinyls she would plan when we had people come over to visit.

I know we have a tendency to idealize the past. When it comes to music and the past, we usually talk about the ritual behind playing a record or buying music. Although it was the way we all consumed music in the past, it is a ritual that some poeple still able to conserve. There are however other rituals that we have lost forever.

When I was a kid, I remember calling the radio station to request a song. It was really a big waiting ritual. Dialing. waiting on hold, make the request, and then wait to hear your song played. There was an element of intention and presence required.

I don’t know if I necessarily miss those times. I don’t have the patience to call and wait around for a song to be played when I can easily just open up a streaming app and play it on demand. But I do remember those days with a lot of affection because I felt like I was actively participating in the success of the artist. Today, there is no real intention I am just chosing a playlist based on my mood and walk away.

After moving to Colombia, the way I listened to music changed even further. I found it difficult to listen to my old playlists in this new place I call home. I was looking for something to match the mood. I got curious about the independent local music scene and began curating a playlist. I delved in deeper to the sounds of the streets and that resulted in a much deeper relationship with salsa.

I discuss these transformations further in this YouTube video.

Happy watching!

Traveling to Medellín? Here Is What To Know Before You Come

Hi Everyone!

As a tour guide in both Medellín and New York City, I have compiled a list I think you will find useful during your trip to Medellín Colombia.

If you are interested in joining my tour, you can reserve your spot here!

Transportation

Metro System

At the moment, Medellín is the only city in Colombia with a rapid transit system. The Metro is a very important part of the culture and a great source of pride for Paisas. I highly recommend using the metro to engage and mix in with locals. But before you do that, there are some rules you should adhere to before hoping along.

  • No eating or drinking allowed on the Metro. This may be a bit confusing since you will find food kiosks and some stations may even have vending machines, but you’ll notice that they are placed before the turnstile.
  • No large packages are allowed on board. If you are traveling with luggage and plan on taking public transportation from the airport in Rionegro to your accommodation in Medellín, you are only going to get half way. Take the buses available at the airport and then hail a cab to your final destination.

Car Etiquette

No slamming car doors or trunks in Medellín. These cars are usually the driver’s primary source of income and are handled with lots of care since repairs can be expensive. Slamming can also be interpreted as a form of microagression suggesting you are unhappy with the services.

Hygiene

Maintaining good hygiene is a way to show consideration for others and seen as basic courtesy.

  • Maintain personal care practices like brushing your teeth, smelling fresh, and well dressed.
  • Burping is considered extremely rude. Please excuse yourself if you are sharing space with others if you find yourself in the need.
  • Medellín is a very clean city. Please hold on to your trash until you find the appropriate recipient.

Trust

Building trust is very important to Paisas. There are several ways to go about it.

  • Always greet them before engaging them. ¡Hola! ¿Cómo estás? It goes a long way!
  • Paisas are big on offerings. They may offer you a cup of coffee, a shot of aguardiente, or a snack. Rejecting them may be interpreted as a sign of mistrust.

Tipping Culture

Tipping culture is present in Colombia. Although its not mandatory in most restaurants, they are greatly appreciated. They call it a service fee. The customary amount is 10% of the total bill.

Pablo Escobar & Narco Tourism

Contrary to what Hollywood makes you believe, this kind of tourism in not welcomed in Medellín.

The number of casualties that arose due to the inner city violence in the 80s and 90s is difficult to calcualate, but its safe to say that they are in the thousands. Each of the people who met their death as a result from the violence have loved ones who still mourn them. If we take that into consideration, the number of people affected by the violence are in the hundred thousands or even millions if we consider Colombians all around the world.

If you look you will find tours that cater to people curious about this horrific time period. Some of them are even sold on the perspective of the victims. However, there is a very telling thing about these tours that lets you know how Paisas feel about this: they are only held in English. They get really upset when guides tell these stories.

Safety

If your travel plans are a long list of things your mother told you not to do, Colombia is not the place you want to try them out.

  • Dating Apps are not the best place to meet people.
  • Read the room. If you are walking down the street and you don’t see anyone with their cellphones out, you should probably follow.
  • Looking at your phone while you wait for a light change to cross the street is also not a great idea.
  • Colombia is not the place you want to show off your purchasing power. Valuables should stay in a safe place either at your hotel room or back home.

Critiquing Culture through a Foreign Lens

It’s really important to remember our role as guests when we travel. It is natural to filter everything we come acorss through our experiences, habits, and comfort zone but ss guests we don’t decide what is right or wrong based on how we do things at home.

When we visit our friend’s house, we don’t walk in observing how the laundry is folded or how dishes are washed. The same should apply to travel.

We are walking into a country’s rhythm and that rhythm is not auditioning for approval.

The Colonial Dimension to Travel

Travel is really important because it contributes to the spread of culture, gives us access to different points of view, and it helps us grown as individuals. But there is a colonial dimension to tourism, especially in developing countries, that is often not spoken about.

A lof of it comes from entitlement. Sometimes it’s intentional, but a lot of the time it is unconscious.

For the most part, tourists have a larger purchasing power than locals. This allows access to more choices and mobility, but access does not translate to ownership.

Yes! Tourism is a big part of the ecoonomy, and that matters. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t limits or that everything is up for consumption just because you paid for a flight.

Social Media

There’s also a performative side to travel. Sometimes when we experience something new, our instict is to turn it into content. Sometimes with a sense of over-excitement with the purpose of it going viral. I know that we are all after the likes, views, and clout, and sometimes the excitement can be genuine, but its worth pausing to remember that what feels new to us is often someone else’s everyday life and culture.

I hope you find these tips helpful!

Feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions!

Festival Estéreo Picnic 2025: Headliners, Tickets, and What to Expect in Colombia’s Biggest Music Event

Festival Estéreo Picnic is gearing up for an unforgettable four-day edition from March 27 to 30, 2025, and anticipation is sky-high. Colombia’s live music scene has been evolving rapidly, with major events like Festival Cordillera, BAUM Festival, and La Solar raising the bar each year. Much of this growth is thanks to Paramo Presenta, one of the largest event promoters in the country. They’ve been instrumental in bringing world-class artists to Colombia, including their latest success—Travis Scott, who delivered a groundbreaking performance at Simón Bolívar Park during his Circus Maximus Tour earlier this year.

For a closer look into the rise of Paramo and its influence on the Colombian music scene, check out my three-episode podcast series where I tell their story in full detail. It’s worth noting that Paramo was recently acquired by Ocesa, a Mexican company that’s part of the global powerhouse Live Nation, making a new chapter for the company and for live music in Colombia.

Festival Esteréo Picnic is Colombia’s premier music festival, consistently delivering an incredible mix of global superstars and homegrown talent for over 13 years. If you’re a fan of music festivals that lean more towards the alternative sounds, steering clear of the reggaeton and trap wave, the 2025 lineup promises to impress. With a diverse range of artists, it’s set to make Bogotá the place to be this upcoming March. This festival is scheduled around the same time as Lallapalooza in Chile, Argentina, and Brazil, sharing many of the top headliners, solidifying Colombia’s position as a major destination for festival-goers across Latin America.

As we look forward to the event, here’s what you can expect from the lineup and its impact on Colombia’s expanding live music scene.

The Headliners: Global Superstars Ready to Take the Stage

Estéreo Picnic has built a strong reputation by securing some of the worlds biggest musical acts, including Red Hot Chili Peppers, Arctic Monkeys, Wiz Khalifa, Kendrick Lamar, and Billie Eilish. The 2025 edition promises to be no different.

This year’s lineup is stacked with world renowned artists who have dominated the music scene for decades. Leading the pack is Justin Timberlake, whose hits span generations. His live music performance is sure to be a showstopper, filled with signature dance moves and a mix of soulful R&B and funk.

Fans of 90s rock will be thrilled to see Alanis Morissette, who will be celebrating the 30th anniversary of Jagged Little Pill (yes, we are that old). Her set is bound to be a nostalgic trip, with the crowd surely signing along to her iconic hits.

For fans of heavy music, anticipation is high for Tool. Known for their progressive rock and immersive live shows, they promise to deliver a mind-bending performance.

Other massive headlines include:

The Black Keys: With their signature mix of old fashioned rock ‘n’ roll and garage band rock and psychedelia, this set is sure to deliver a raw, high-energy experience to blues rock aficionados.

Justice: This Grammy-winning French duo is known for their electro-pop hits and genre-defining style. With their signature blend of disco and funk, they’ll bring Daft Punk-esque energy that will have everyone dancing.

Olivia Rodrigo: The breakout pop star of 2021, with hits like “drivers license’ and “good 4 u,” will attract a younger audience with her angsty, heartfelt lyrics.

Rufus Du Sol: This Grammy-winning Australian trio is famous for their emotional blend of indie and electronic. They draw inspiration from electronic dance pioneers like the Chemical Brothers, it will be perfect for closing out a day of high-energy performances.

 
 
 
 
 
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Other major international names include Incubus, Michael Kiwanuka, and JPEGMafia, each of whom will addd their own unique flavors to this already diverse lineup. With so much star power, Estéreo Picnic is poised to be a global music event on par with the biggest festivals around the world.

Colombian Artists Ready to Shine

While the international headliners draw the most attention, Estéreo Picnic 2025 is also a platform for Colombia’s best musicians. The local scene will once again prove why Colombia is becoming a powerhouse in Latin America’s music industry. This year’s standout performers include a mix of genres from modern indie to hip-hop.

Leading the national roster is the legendary Galy Galiano, whose romantic ballads and tropical hits have made him a beloved figure in Colombian music for decades. His presence at the festival brings a touch of nostalgia and highlights Colombia’s rich musical heritage.

Oh’Laville, This is another must see. Their indie rock sound has earned them a loyal following, and their performance at Estéreo Picnic is bound to attract both die-hard fans and new listeners alike.

Other Colombian artists to watch include:

Bad Milk: This isn’t the first big stage for this Medellín native, having performed at Lollapalooza Chile 2024. Known for her versatility in blending genre’s like hip-hop, reggae, trap, and experimental pop, she has become a standout in Colombia’s emerging music scene.

Las Mijas: Briela Ojeda and La Muchacha Isabel form this fierce feminist collective, blending indie rock and acoustics with strong political messages, making their set one of the most socially charged performances.

De Mar y Rio: As winners of the Petronio Álvarez festival this group is a standout in traditional Colombian music from the Pacific region. They incorporate beautiful choreographies with handkerchiefs at hand, adding a traditional and visually captivating element to their stage presence.

Pirlo and Granuja: Both staples of Colombia’s rap scene, these hip-hop artists will bring raw, gritty performances that showcase the nation’s rap scene.

These acts represent just a fraction of the talent that will grace the stages, but they encapsulate the diversity of Colombian music today.

Latin American Talent: Emerging Voices

Beyond Colombia, Estéreo Picnic 2025 is also showcasing some of the hottest Latin American talent. Two acts in particular that have caught my eye are Cardellino and Motherflowers.

Cardellino, from Uruguay, brings a unique mix of indie-pop and hip-hop. HIs smooth vocals and introspective lyrics have made him a favorite in the Latin indie scene, and his performance at Estéreo Picnic will likely introduce him to an even wider audience.

Motherflowers, a psychedelic band from Venezuela with a fresh, innovative sound, they like to call retrofuturismopsicotropical promises to captivate festival-goers with their dreamy yet powerful performances. Their ability to blend Latin rhythms is sure to have a lasting impression.

Mon Laferte, the Chilean singer-songwriter, will have you hugging your friends and swaying to her powerful storytelling. Her music weaves together themes of love, heartbreak, and social issues, all while blending rock, bolero, and folk in a captivating performance.

Festival Estéreo Picnic 2025 will take place at Simón Bolívar Park, offering attendees the chance to immerse themselves in four days of incredible music. Tickets are available per day or you can purchase the 4-day combo at www.festivalestereopicnic.com

And if you’re looking to get into the festival vibe early, here’s the best playlist I’ve found for FEP 2025 to get you started.

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